You know what "they" say:  some people never learn.  And you know what I hate:  when I am one of those "some people."  It's amazing to me how we (AHEM ME) can KNOW what we should do and yet we still do not do it.  It's humbling to write about my recent experiences in this area, but my hope is that since this continues to be a struggle for me, maybe I can catch someone else at just the right time before he or she falls into more of the same himself or herself.  The mantra of my day/week/month (probably life):  Don't sweat the small stuff.  Earth-shattering and groundbreaking I know.  This is not the first time you have